Photograph

Have you heard of the song "Photograph" by Ed Sheeran? If you don't, I highly recommend you to listen to that song. As in listen because the song is so so so nice. This song tells us that no matter how far you are with each other as long as your love for each other is true, you can survive that long distance relationship that you have. When you love, distance doesn't matter. You need to have TRUST to your partner because that is the foundation of your relationship other than your love.

The verse that struck me the most in this song is that:

And if you hurt me

Well that's okay baby, only words bleed.

Inside these pages you just hold me,

And I won't ever let you go.

Why? It is because the love of the man with the girl is never ending. He will accept everything that the girl will say because that's just her opinion and he respects it. That is how his love to the girl works. That his love is true that he can and will take whatever it is that will happen as long as they are together and he will never give up the girl.  But sometimes in life, we need not to settle to "it's just okay"  like "it's just okay if they hurt me. I have a promise to them. I won't give him up and will continue to fight for him." I know that most people who TRULY fall in love says this thing to themselves. As what I've said, we don't need to settle for this because we need to know our limitations.  We need to know when to give up and when to keep our hopes high or fighting. I know that most people who fall in love became somewhat stupid. We choose to always listen to our heart and tend to forget our mind. When we love, we should not just listen to our heart. We should also listen to our mind because it knows when to stop. I'm not saying that we should not listen to our heart when it's already too much but at least try to reflect well and make your heart and mind's decision as one and make sure that you know the consequences to your actions. Don't just look on the positive outcomes of your decision but also on the negative outcomes because if you just think of the positive outcomes you might regret it because maybe, just maybe, you will loose an important person in your life.